Comments from yesterdays post have made me realize an important thing about my relationship. I don't...won't, can't you decide...trust him to take care of my emotional being. I know that this is a huge red flag on the field, I really do and I'm cautious about it. I see it for what it is, potential for disaster. I also know him. I know that inside of him is this desire to be that person for me, but he has never learned how to be that person. I guess I need to decide if I'm that person, the one to teach him. He's trying though, I feel it. I need to let down my gaurd though, or else he's going to retreat.
Thank you. I feel like it's working now, being here and talking. Your feed back and support are so incredibly important to me.
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I doubt any one person can be EVERYTHING to someone. If they could, would you really want them to?
"I'm pissed because...OH! I can take care of that!"
"Well, I'm just down and need...I know exactly what you need!"
"I think I'm just going to...well, why don't I tag along?"
Bleck.
Just make sure you're both doing what you can for each other, be open, and then hope the other gets filled in along the way. Don't try and be mind readers, that's for sure.
(clearly that made no sense, I think I'm going back to looking for free massages)
I'm glad your talking and our being here is working, gophie. I'll love and support you any way I can, that's for sure.
You know, I just thought of something. Has anyone yet made a Love Boat joke?
You know: "Hey Gopher! Where's the Captain and Doc? "
Sorry, had to be done.
Sweetie... progress is good. Even just a little teeny bit.
Hugs to you.
There is something I want to share with you, but privately. I have to run now, but around 4ish i'll email you.
For now, Hugs and love to you.
I just sent you an email. I hope you're doing well.
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